Sunday, November 29, 2009

An Extra-ordinary Man

An Extra-ordinary Man
We still have a few good human beings around who are doing some yeoman service without expecting anything in return.... God Bless Such Souls!!!!! 'I don't feed beggars. They can look after themselves. The mentally ill won't ask anyone for food or money,' says N Krishnan who has been feeding them thrice a day for the past seven years.
For more information on N Krishnan's trust, log on to: http://www.akshayat/ rust.org

Left 5-star job to feed the mentally ill. N Krishnan feeds 400 mentally ill people on the streets of Madurai three times a day, every day, all 365 days of the year. The 28 year old has been doing this for seven years via a charity called the Akshaya Trust.
A look into the kitchen reveals a spotlessly clean room.. Sparkling vessels stacked neatly, groceries and provisions all lined up in rows -- rice, dal, vegetables, spices -- all of the best quality.. One would think this was the kitchen of a five star hotel. Maybe Krishnan achieves that effect because he was once a chef at a five star hotel in Bengaluru.
"Today's lunch is curd rice, with home made pickle, please taste it," he says, serving me on a plate made of dried leaves.The food is excellent.
"I change the menu for different days of the week.. They will get bored if I serve the same food every day," he says with an enthusiastic and infectious smile.

Image: N Krishnan feeds a mentally ill person on a Madurai streetPhotographs: A Ganesh Nadar
Krishnan feeds 400 mentally ill people every day. Krishnan cooks breakfast, lunch and dinner with the help of two cooks. He takes it himself to his wards on the street each day.
"I don't feed beggars. They can look after themselves. The mentally ill won't ask anyone for food or money. They don't move around much too. I find them in the same place every day."
That morning he put the food in a large vessel, the pickle in a smaller one and loaded it into a Maruti van donated by a Madurai philanthropist.
Ten minutes later we stopped near a man lying on the ground by a high wall. Krishnan put the food next to him. The man refused to even look at it, but grabbed the water bottle and drank eagerly. "He will eat the food later, looks like he was very thirsty," said Krishnan.
At the next stop, he laid the dry leaf-plate and served the food. He then scooped some food and started feeding the mentally ill man himself. After two morsels, the man started eating on his own.
We then crossed a crowded traffic signal and stopped the vehicle. On seeing Krishnan, four individuals moved slowly towards the Maruti van.. They stood out in the crowd with their dirty, tattered clothes and unshaven beards. They knew this Maruti van meant food. But they did not hurry, knowing that Krishnan would wait for them. Krishnan served them under a tree and carried water for them. "They are not aware enough to get their own water," he explained.
And thus we went around the city till the Akshaya patra was empty. Of course, it would be full again for dinner later in the day.


Seven Years
As we returned, a startling fact hit me. Not a single mentally challenged person had thanked Krishnan. They did not even smile or acknowledge him. Still Krishnan carried on in a world where most of us get offended if someone doesn't say thank you, sometimes even for doing our jobs..
The food costs Rs 8,000 a day, but that doesn't worry him. "I have donors for 22 days. The remaining days, I manage myself. I am sure I will get donors for that too, people who can afford it are generally generous, particularly when they know that their hard earned money is actually going to the poor. That is why I maintain my accounts correctly and scrupulously." He then pulled out a bill from the cabinet and showed it to me. It was a bill for groceries he had bought seven years ago. "This bill has sentimental value. It is the first one after I started Akshaya."
The economic slowdown has resulted in a drop in the number of donors. Earlier, they sustained meals for 25 days.Software giants Infosys and TCS were so impressed with his work that they donated three acres of land to him in Madurai . Krishnan hopes to build a home for his wards there. He has built the basement for a woman's block which will house 80 inmates, but work has currently halted due to a lack of funds.

Five Idlis
This, however, is not the sum of his good deeds. Krishnan also performs the funerals of unclaimed bodies in Madurai . He collects the body, bathes it and gives it a decent burial or cremation as the need may be.
He gets calls, both from the municipal corporation and general hospital for the funerals.
He recalls with a little prompting how one day he saw a mentally ill man eating his excreta. He rushed to the nearest restaurant and bought the man five idlis. The man ate voraciously, and then smiled at him. The smile made Krishnan want to do it again and again.
Krishnan has not married and wonders if anyone would want to marry a man who spends his days cooking food for others. He is firm that his life partner has to agree to this kind of life.
His parents were initially shocked, but are now very supportive of their son. They advise him about the cuisine and also about how he can streamline the process. One wonders why he left his job in a five star hotel to bury the dead and feed the mentally ill. To this he just smiles and says, "I like doing it." Mr. Krishnan is doing this -
** not for political motive, because they can't vote
** not for any relegious conversion, because they don't know what they are
** not with any expectation to get something in future, because they wouldn't remember him even if they become normal
He is doing this great without having any expectation.
We are proud of you Mr. Krishnan and feel still there are great human hearts around us.
Thank You Mr.Krishnan !

Friday, October 30, 2009

Senthil - The real hero!_Humble Beginning, Immense outcomes


Humble Beginning, Immense outcomes
Come and visit Thennur village near Trichy. I got a chance to go there when we went to our friend Thilaga’s marriage. Here is a man who was earning Rs 2 lakhs per month 5years ago in the US. One of his ambitions, from the time he was studying in school, is to serve his village. Hence, after earning some money for his parents, he resigned his job in the US and came to his village to start an NGO in order to support the village. He is just 36 years old now which means he resigned his job when he was 31! He is also called as ‘Ilam Gandhi’ (Young Gandhi).
So, what did he do after resigning his job?? He invested Rs 40 lakhs in Thennur to build a community health center and an informal learning center. Out of the Rs 40 lakhs which he spent, Rs 31 lakhs came out of his own pocket. He started an NGO called ‘Payir’ to help this village
Have a look at his PAYIR’s building:



The community health center:



Informal learning center:


Now, he has appointed 5 people who are locals and who function as his staff. They teach proper English to the schools available in their locality.
Local staff working in Payir


And that is not all! He has created a small IT company within that village. This company has 4 employees as of now, who are all graduates from this village. They have a US client and are currently working on a $2500 project. This IT company is in the middle of a Coconut farm.
The IT company in the middle of a farm


Inside the company


Fan inside the IT company


While working in the US, he used to deposit a little money for his parents as one of his mother’s wishes was to build a house for themselves. With his savings, his parents now live in a big house at Srirangam.
But, that’s not the case with him. He lives in a small hut in that village itself.
Have a look at his room:



I asked him, how he is able to live without any earnings? His reply was as follows:
“Payir trust provides me with daily food. My trustees have agreed on this. I have built a hut for myself using my past earnings. So shelter is not a problem. I have 3sets of shirts and Vesti (Dhoti) which I can use for the next 2 years. My friends will get me a few dresses once or twice in a year. What more do I need in my life??”
Have a look at the slipper of the great man who was earning 2Lakhs a month in US:


When I asked, how he will manage in his old age, if he gets any disease, he coolly replied that he will go to a Govt. hospital where everything is free of cost.
My question is: How many of us will dare to act like Senthil? Many of us have so many dreams in life like becoming a music director, to become a cricketer, to do MBA, go to the Himalayas, help the schools where we studied, to become a district collector etc., etc. But we all lose our dreams just to earn money and want to reach a position which we call it as ‘Status’. We determine our path by seeing what others are doing. We select our needs based on what others have. We select a course to study based on the job availability and its salary rather than our interest for the subject.
Every one forgets that we have only one life to achieve our dream. Many of us chase what we do not want actually. If you still have some of your dreams unfulfilled, remember that you are the reason behind it. Start now and chase your dreams!
Senthil had a dream and he started executing it now! Believe me or not. Senthil started dreaming about Payir organization during his 11th std!

Senthil - The real hero!


Coming to the social aspect of Senthil, how many of us will leave all that we have earned and work for the benefit of others? Have we ever dreamt of doing what Senthil has done?
While returning from Thennur, only one thing was running on my mind. If everyone of us did atleast 0.1% of what Senthil has done, our India will be much better than any other country in this world!!
If many of us continue to focus on personal growth without worrying about our nation, in future, there will be many more Senthil’s around us who would have sacrificed their personal life for the welfare of this country.
Thennur is not just another village in our India map. It is a start of a new beginning for India. Thennur is a proof of the change that youth can bring in our country.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Social Leadership Workshop@IIT Madras on 25/10/09

IViL, WhiteSwan Consulting Group and CTIDES present....

The Social Leadership Workshop, IIT Madras
Venue: DOMS 101
Time: 9 AM - 4 PM
Date: 25 October 2009, Sunday

Speakers Info:
Prof. LS Ganesh - "Measuring Social Impact": Dr. LS Ganesh is a professor in the Department of Management Studies, IIT Madras. He is a prolific speaker, fosters start-ups and has been a key member of some national-level government-sponsored projects and also of projects sponsored by international organizations such as the World Bank, and the UNDP. He is actively involved in industry bodies such as the Confederation of Indian Industry (CII) and Madras Management Association (MMA).


Dr. Anjali Nigam - "Consulting in social space": Dr. Anjali Nigam is a specialized professional in the field of 'Organizational Development'. She specializes in Training Development, and in offering consulting services in the areas of 'Strategic Direction & HR systems'. Dr. Nigam is a Ph.D. in Management and Business Economics along with a specialization in 'Business Enterprise Management' from the Manchester, UK.


Dave Wallack - "Microfinance Sector in India & IFMR Trust": Dave Wallack is Senior Vice President of the IFMR Trust. He has an MBA at Stanford's Graduate School of Business, he was a political campaign operative and political consultant working with the national Democratic Party as well as numerous candidates for the U.S. House, U.S. Senate and the Presidency of the United States. Speaker from Aavishkar* - "Venture Philanthropy and Rural Entrepreneurship"
Mr. Ramakrishna - "Challenges in a social venture & Rangde journey": Ramakrishna is a software consultant by profession. He has 9 years of experience in the software industry. Prior to starting RangDe.Org, he worked as Principal Consultant for Vignette Europe Ltd. Ram firmly believes that entrepreneurship in the social space is at a very nascent stage in India and there is an urgent need to incubate social businesses with a focus on social returns.


Dr. Murali Subrahmanyam- "Business in the social sector: Key strategies": Dr. Murali Subrahmanyam presently heads business off-shoring at Alliance Bernstein. He has been the COO of Quintegra Solutions Limited and Merrill Lynch India. He comes with a proven track record of successfully off shoring technology service and creating a profitably running captive from scratch..


Paul Basil* - "Incubating grassroot innovations": Paul Basil is the CEO of Vilgro, earlier called Rural Innovations Network. Paul Basil identifies promising rural innovations, develops them into enterprises, and enables their diffusion through commercial and noncommercial ventures. Through his work, Paul is extending social investment to rural areas and ensuring that the best solutions reach as many thousands of people as possible.


Indrani Singh - "Capacity Building in the Developmental Sector": Indrani Singh is an independent developmental consultant and provides training and capacity building training programmes to MFIs and developmental agencies. She has a rich experience in banking and has held senior management positions in the Syndicate Bank.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

Power of Positive Talk

I remember my dad teaching me the power of language at a very young age. Not only did my dad understand that specific words affect our mental pictures, but he understood words are a powerful programming factor in lifelong success.

One particularly interesting event occurred when I was eight. As a kid, I was always climbing trees, poles, and literally hanging around upside down from the rafters of our lake house. So, it came to no surprise for my dad to find me at the top of a 30-foot tree swinging back and forth. My little eight-year-old brain didn\'t realize the tree could break or I could get hurt. I just thought it was fun to be up so high.

My older cousin, Tammy, was also in the same tree. She was hanging on the first big limb, about ten feet below me. Tammy\'s mother also noticed us at the exact time my dad did. About that time a huge gust of wind came over the tree. I could hear the leaves start to rattle and the tree begin to sway. I remember my dad\'s voice over the wind yell, "Bart, Hold on tightly." So I did. The next thing I know, I heard Tammy screaming at the top of her lungs, laying flat on the ground. She had fallen out of the tree.

I scampered down the tree to safety. My dad later told me why she fell and I did not. Apparently, when Tammy\'s mother felt the gust of wind, she yelled out, "Tammy, don\'t fall!" And Tammy did... fall.

My dad then explained to me that the mind has a very difficult time processing a negative image. In fact, people who rely on internal pictures cannot see a negative at all. In order for Tammy to process the command of not falling, her nine-year-old brain had to first imagine falling, then try to tell the brain not to do what it just imagined. Whereas, my eight-year-old brain instantly had an internal image of me hanging on tightly.

This concept is especially useful when you are attempting to break a habit or set a goal. You can\'t visualize not doing something. The only way to properly visualize not doing something is to actually find a word for what you want to do and visualize that. For example, when I was thirteen years old, I played for my junior high school football team. I tried so hard to be good, but I just couldn\'t get it together at that age. I remember hearing the words run through my head as I was running out for a pass, "Don\'t drop it!" Naturally, I dropped the ball.

My coaches were not skilled enough to teach us proper "self-talk." They just thought some kids could catch and others couldn\'t. I\'ll never make it pro, but I\'m now a pretty good Sunday afternoon football player, because all my internal dialogue is positive and encourages me to win. I wish my dad had coached me playing football instead of just climbing trees. I might have had a longer football career.

Here is a very easy demonstration to teach your kids and your friends the power of a toxic vocabulary. Ask them to hold a pen or pencil. Hand it to them. Now, follow my instructions carefully. Say to them, "Okay, try to drop the pencil." Observe what they do.

Most people release their hands and watch the pencil hit the floor. You respond, "You weren\'t paying attention. I said TRY to drop the pencil. Now please do it again." Most people then pick up the pencil and pretend to be in excruciating pain while their hand tries but fails to drop the pencil.

The point is made.

If you tell your brain you will "give it a try," you are actually telling your brain to fail. I have a "no try" rule in my house and with everyone I interact with. Either people will do it or they won\'t. Either they will be at the party or they won\'t. I\'m brutal when people attempt to lie to me by using the word try. Do they think I don\'t know they are really telegraphing to the world they have no intention of doing it but they want me to give them brownie points for pretended effort? You will never hear the words "I\'ll try" come out of my mouth unless I\'m teaching this concept in a seminar.

If you "try" and do something, your unconscious mind has permission not to succeed. If I truly can\'t make a decision I will tell the truth. "Sorry John. I\'m not sure if I will be at your party or not. I\'ve got an outstanding commitment. If that falls through, I will be here. Otherwise, I will not. Thanks for the invite."

People respect honesty. So remove the word "try" from your vocabulary.

My dad also told me that psychologists claim it takes seventeen positive statements to offset one negative statement. I have no idea if it is true, but the logic holds true. It might take up to seventeen compliments to offset the emotional damage of one harsh criticism.

These are concepts that are especially useful when raising children.

Ask yourself how many compliments you give yourself daily versus how many criticisms. Heck, I know you are talking to yourself all day long. We all have internal voices that give us direction.

So, are you giving yourself the 17:1 ratio or are you shortchanging yourself with toxic self-talk like, " I\'m fat. Nobody will like me. I\'ll try this diet. I\'m not good enough. I\'m so stupid. I\'m broke, etc. etc."

If our parents can set a lifetime of programming with one wrong statement, imagine the kind of programming you are doing on a daily basis with your own internal dialogue. Here is a list of Toxic Vocabulary words.

Notice when you or other people use them.

Ø But: Negates any words that are stated before it.
Ø Try: Presupposes failure.
Ø If: Presupposes that you may not.
Ø Might: It does nothing definite. It leaves options for your listener.
Ø Would Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn\'t actually happen.
Ø Should Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn\'t actually happen (and implies guilt.)
Ø Could Have: Past tense that draws attention to things that didn\'t actually happen but the person tries to take credit as if it did happen.
Ø Can\'t/Don\'t: These words force the listener to focus on exactly the opposite of what you want. This is a classic mistake that parents and coaches make without knowing the damage of this linguistic error.

Examples:
Toxic phrase: "Don\'t drop the ball!"
Likely result: Drops the ball
Better language: "Catch the ball!"

Toxic phrase: "You shouldn\'t watch so much television."
Likely result: Watches more television.
Better language: "I read too much television makes people stupid. You might find yourself turning that TV off and picking up one of those books more often!"

Exercise: Take a moment to write down all the phrases you use on a daily basis or any Toxic self-talk that you have noticed yourself using. Write these phrases down so you will begin to catch yourself as they occur and change them.

Copied from a forwarded mail. Dont know about the author.

Struggling to get a receipt for attending Pravasi Bharatiya Divas 2009 (happened on Jan 2009).

This will be one of the posts to escalate my personal issue.



I attended the Pravasi Bharatiya Divas 2009, happened between 7th & 9th January 2009 at Chennai Trade Centre, Chennai. I have yet to receive the receipt for my participation. The conference costed me Rs.5138 and I am unable to get reimbursement from my department since I do not have the receipt. I have sent mails to the email addresses they gave and there was no response.

I do not know how many of the Indian origins who attended the conference underwent similar troubles. The conference is to gather NRIs and encourage them in investing in India. But if the organizers of the conference are this lethargic about even sending the receipt for attending the conference, I do not see any reason for the participants to have good mood to invest in India. Will they not think India is always like this and things are not done at pace? Anybody listening?

The e-mail I sent to organisers on Jan 2009 is attached below.



---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Thiru malai thirumalairaja@gmail.com
Date: Mon, Feb 2, 2009 at 2:34 PM
Subject: Re: FW: Receipt for PBD2009 :: successful registration transaction.
To: Amit Gautam amit.gautam@in.kuoni.com
Dear Amit,
I could not login. The click here button is disabled. Can you please help me on this. I need to provide the bills.
Thanks,
Thiru.

On Mon, Jan 19, 2009 at 12:27 PM, Amit Gautam <amit.gautam@in.kuoni.com> wrote:
Dear Thirumalai,
Please note that he receipt can be printed online by login with your username and password.
Regards,
Amit

From: Web Master [mailto:webmaster@cii.in]
Sent: Friday, January 16, 2009 1:24 PM
Subject: FW: Receipt for PBD2009 :: successful registration transaction.
----Original Message-----
Sent: Thu 1/15/2009 11:30 PMTo: webmaster@ciionline.org
Subject: Receipt for PBD2009 :: successful registration transaction.
Dear Sir/Madam,
I attended PBD 2009. I am a MBA (I year student) from IIT Madras. I need ahelp from you. I need a receipt for the registration I did for reimbursementpurposes from my department. Can you please help me regarding this?My address isXXXXIf you can send me the reciept to this address, that would be great.
Awaiting for your response,
Thirumalai.
---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: <webmaster@ciionline.org>Date: Mon, Jan 5, 2009 at 7:11 PM
Subject: PBD2009 :: successfull registration transaction.
Dear Mr Thirumalai R,
Thank you for Paying for your registration at the Pravasi BharatiyaDivas being held in Chennai Trade Centre, Chennai from 7th to 9th January2009.Your registration number is PBD09-0636.
Your unique Username is thirumalairaja@gmail.com.
Your unique Password is XXXX.
Please use your user name and password to book your accommodation andany other transport / travel requirement.Updated information on the event - programme, related events,accommodation etc will be available on the website http://www.pbdindia.org/
Since accommodation in Chennai is very heavily booked in the month ofDecember / January, we once again request you to block youraccommodation immediately. Please contact the official Travel Agent -SITA Destination Management with you requirements atpbdreservations@ciionline.org. <pbdreservations@ciionline.org>
Please do get in touch in case you require any clarification or furtherinformation.We look forward to having you with us at the Pravasi Bharatiya Divas 2007.
Yours sincerely,
*Madhu Pillai*
DirectorConfederation of Indian Industry
The Mantosh Sondi Centre23
Institutional AreaLodi Road,
New Delhi - 110003
Tel: + 91-11-24629994 - 7/
Fax: + 91-11-24615693

Funding poor students...(For Bangalore students only)

If you have come across any bright students coming from poor financial background who have finished their 10th standard this year (April 2009) and scored more than 80%, please ask them to contact the NGO-Prerana (supported by Infy foundation).

The NGO is conducting a written test and those who clear the test will be eligible for financial help for their further studies. Please ask the students to contact the people mentioned below to get the form

#580,shubhakar,
44th cross,
1st ‘A’ main road,
jayanagar 7th block
Bangalore

mob no
9900906338(saraswati)
Mr.shivkumar( 9986630301) -he sits at hanumanthnagar office
Ms.Bindu(9964534667 )-she sits at yeshwantpur office

Even if you dont know anyone, please pass on this info, some one might be in need of this help desperately.

Anything that triggers my response

16/6/09

Succeed on your own terms

I read a book today today and here are the good & important points to define success in your own terms

1. Focus on what you have rather than what you don’t

2. Always play like you are trying out for the team

3. Be who you are right now

4. Pursue something that is completely and totally interesting to you

5. Embrace your hopes

6. Customize yourself

7. Respond from the heart when disaster strikes

8. Understand your thoughts so you can create your future

9. Be true to your conviction

10. Look in the mirror and be able to say “I did the right thing”

11. Know what your stand for

12. Don’t let others define you

13. Reinvent yourself

14. Accept your own challenges

15. When you get sick of what you are doing, stop doing it

16. Challenge your status quo

17. Admit when you have made the mistake and turn the situation around

18. Realize when you are lucky and grab your opportunity

19. Find something that no one else is doing and make it yours

20. Develop the strength of your own choice

21. Don’t leave your thoughts behind

22. Know how to retire

23. Asset Yourself

24. Surround yourself with the right people

25. Set your watch for now

26. Don’t take it personally

27. Don’t be afraid to be first


16/6/09

Customer service in ICICI Anna salai branch (For cheque deposit)

I wanted to encash a cheque today and went to ICICI Anna salai branch. The system in ICICI bank was to pin the cheque with the pay-in slip and drop in the drop box. But ICICI has upgraded the system like this.

When I entered the branch, one of the executives approached me to help. I thought it is a normal procedure and I don't need his help. But due to his continuous attention on me, I told him that I need to drop a cheq

ue. He got my cheque, wrote my acc no & mobile no on the reverse side. Then comes the automated part...

1. He goes to an automated computer and types twice my account number.

2. He types the amount on cheque, he confirms with me everytime when he enters.

3. The system asks for the cheque, he inserts the cheque like we feed the printer. It gives a receipt (image) which has a xeroxed proof of my cheque leaf.

I was amazed by this upgradation that ICICI has done and I really felt very satisfied by their service. I think this is the real "PROOF" part in service marketing that we studied in theory. Earlier one used to have an uncertain feeling till the cheque is through. With this kind of slip, you will never have any doubt about the encashment and safety of cheque and there can be no discrepency. Great application of technology.


14/6/09

My View on accusing Microsoft...
Microsoft Has Found The Cheapest Meals In America (Or Is Just Cheap)
http://linkbee.com/ATW6P

MS should stop doing this which creates unnecessary doubts on its reputation (and of course ...these unnecessary blogs & comments on whether it is doing right or not). If MS wants to do charity, let it keep that seperate from business and just display that it is donating this much to the charity and let it not relate with any products and downloads. Because then the act of donation or charity will depend on the success or failure of the products advertised. Keeping philanthrophy snd business will clear all the unnecessary complaints & assumed talks. Let the only the intention and action prevail, not stories and assumptions.